Do You Approach Others
as if They are Powerful?

I can see past a person's actions and behvaiors to who they really are
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I allow others to speak their minds without interupting
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I do not judge others for what they say or do
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I try to control the thoughts and actions of others in order to get my needs met
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I am open to hearing new creative ideas without rejecting them or the creator
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I acknowledge others for helping me
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I use criticism so that others know how to improve
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always


I accept and respect everyone unconditionally regardless of their status, education, or job description
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I take time to understand others
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

People find it difficult to talk openly and honestly around me
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I respect the feelings and thoughts of others even if I don't agree or understand them
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

My values are more important than the values of others
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I feel more powerful than others
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I appreciate the uniqueness of those around me
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I speak to everyone the same
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I feel responsible for others when they "fail" or have problems
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I allow others to be themselves without judgement
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I blame others when things go wrong
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I know that others are just as powerful when they "fail" are when they succeed
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I allow others to be right
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I apologize when I am wrong
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

Other people's values must be in alignment with mine for a relationship to work
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I look for opportunities to give compliments or positive feedback
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I treat others according to how valuable they are to me
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

I allow others to express opinions completely contrary to mine without judgement
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always

People feel better after spending time with me
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always



Copyright Nanice Ellis 2004